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Porn Addiction Signs & Symptoms
If you or someone you know is struggling with a potential porn addiction, there are common signs and symptoms to watch for. It’s vital to identify these symptoms to seek help and guidance correctly. Porn addiction can be treated through counseling, therapy, and other methods.
Written byJessica Miller
Medically reviewed byKent S. Hoffman, D.O.
Last updatedFebruary 28, 2025
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“Am I Addicted to Porn?!”
While porn addiction is a behavioral addiction according to the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5), porn addiction symptoms are similar to that of substance use disorders (SUDs).
Viewing pornography doesn’t automatically mean that a porn addiction is present. However, like anything else, when not done in moderation, excessive pron viewing can lead to dependence and addiction.
Being able to identify the signs and symptoms of porn addiction correctly is crucial, especially if you think that you or a loved one may have a problem. Porn addiction is treatable with counseling, therapy, and other treatment methods.
Porn Addiction Signs to Watch For in a Loved One
If your loved one is struggling with pornography use, you may feel worried, frustrated, and even angry. With time, their porn addiction may even interfere with daily life and affect you.
Knowing the signs of porn addiction can help you understand if their porn use has become a problem — and when it may be time to seek professional help.
Here are the top signs of porn addiction to watch for in your partner or other loved one:
- Compulsive behavior: they feel they need or have to watch porn and spend excessive time doing it
- Trouble in sexual relationships: porn viewing may interfere with their sex life
- Effects on mental health issues: they watch porn so much or so often that it causes mental health issues or worsens existing mental health disorders
- Effects on physical health: they miss sleep, ignore hygiene, lose weight, etc., due to their porn addiction
- Porn as a coping mechanism: they use porn to cope with other life issues, like stress, erectile dysfunction, relationship troubles, or trauma
- Self-esteem issues: they seem down, have low self-esteem, act guilty, or look distraught much of the time
- Porn withdrawal symptoms: they act irritable, annoyed, or otherwise unable to function when not using porn
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Top 14 Porn Addiction Symptoms
Behavioral addictions can be more challenging to identify than drug or alcohol addictions accurately.
To an outsider, a person’s behavioral addiction may be seen as the person being passionate or even obsessed with the activity they are addicted to.
Knowing what to look for when it comes to porn addiction can help make that distinction between a healthy and unhealthy relationship with pornography.
Below are some of the most common signs that you or a loved one may have a porn addiction:
- Unable to quit porn
- Intense porn cravings
- Neglecting typical responsibilities
- Excessive porn use
- Financial issues from porn use
- Loss of regular sexual interest
- Disconnecting from partner
- Difficulty getting aroused
- Unrealistic expectations of sex
- Physical pain/discomfort
- Difficulty concentrating regularly
- Anger when restricted from porn
- Escalating extreme porn content
- Using porn to cope with stress
Let’s go into detail on each of these symptoms.
1. You’re Unable to Stop Watching Porn
Like with substance addiction, one of the most straightforward ways to tell if a porn addiction is present is if the person is unable to quit watching porn.
Someone displaying compulsive sexual behavior may try and stop watching porn and be unsuccessful. They also may understand the negative consequences that their porn viewing has and still be unable to stop.
As their porn addiction continues to get more severe, they may even reach a point where they no longer want to watch porn, but they feel as though they have to, leading to feelings of guilt.
2. You Feel Cravings to Watch It
As the brain’s dependency on pornography grows, you begin to crave porn to feel normal.
Cravings are the result of the brain wanting a rush of dopamine (the feel-good drug) and knowing that it can get that extra dopamine from watching porn.
You may experience cravings to continue watching porn after you have already started, or you might experience a craving if you have gone a while without consuming any pornography.
Cravings are unique in that they not only occur as part of an addiction, but they also occur during addiction treatment as a withdrawal symptom.
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3. You Lose Interest in Usual Activities
When someone is suffering from an addiction of any kind, they often prioritize their addiction over other activities.
Someone with a porn addiction may choose to watch porn instead of:
- Going to work or school
- Spending time with family members or loved ones
- Fulfilling daily responsibilities
- Participating in previously enjoyable hobbies
Often, the prioritizing of watching porn may come at the detriment of not just the person with the porn addiction but those around them as well.
4. You Spend Large Amounts of Time Viewing Porn
Someone with a healthy relationship with porn may watch porn infrequently and for a short period.
For someone with a porn addiction, their porn viewing habits may begin similarly, but over time, they may find themselves watching porn more frequently.
They may also find themselves watching porn for hours on end, often at the expense of daily activities and responsibilities.
5. You Spend Lots of Money on Porn
While the internet and social media have made it easy to access porn at no cost, there are many porn sites with subscription services available as well.
You can also rent or purchase pornographic movies and videos much in the same way you can with more traditional Hollywood movies.
Someone with a porn addiction may spend large amounts of money on pornographic content. In some cases, they may even spend money they don’t have or money that was supposed to go toward paying bills, leading to financial problems.
Their porn addiction may also lead to problems at work, including loss of employment, which can cause additional financial strain.
6. You’re Losing Interest in Sex
For some couples, pornography can be a form of sexual exploration. They may use pornography to spice up their love life or even for educational purposes.
When a person’s pornography viewing has reached an unhealthy level, though, pornography may begin to have the opposite effect.
Someone with a porn addiction may find themselves favoring watching pornography over being intimate with their partner. They may find porn to be more exciting or sexually arousing than traditional sex.
7. You’re Losing Interest in Your Partner
Porn presents a mostly unrealistic depiction of intimacy and sex.
Filming often uses filters, flattering angles, and strategic lighting to make the performers look a certain way. However, the actors’ behavior usually does not match real-world romantic relationships.
Someone who frequently watches porn or has a porn addiction may begin to compare their own sex life to what they see in porn.
As a result, their overall views on sex and intimacy may become distorted to the point where they no longer find their partner to be desirable. This can cause self-esteem issues in their partner.
8. You Have Difficulty Getting Sexually Aroused
As a person’s porn addiction continues to get more severe, they may reach a point where they experience sexual dysfunction without the use of pornography.
When a person views pornography, it can lead to an increase in dopamine levels. As they continue to view porn, the brain becomes more dependent on those elevated dopamine levels until it reaches the point where it craves the extra dopamine.
Eventually, the brain may become so dependent on pornography and the elevated dopamine levels that come with watching porn that it thinks it needs to view porn to feel pleasure or arousal.
9. You Develop Unrealistic Expectations in the Bedroom
Porn’s depiction of how intimate partners behave in the bedroom is often unrealistic.
Someone who watches a lot of porn or has a porn addiction may see the way these actors behave and perform and expect their partner to act in the same way during intimate times.
Since many of the actions depicted in porn do not match up with real life, when their partner does not behave like their favorite actor, it may lead to disappointment and frustration for the porn addict.
10. You Develop Joint Pain From Frequent Porn Use
Even though porn addiction is a mental health condition, it can have physical consequences as well.
Someone who spends hours on end watching porn may begin to experience wrist and hand pain or even pain on and around their genitals from excessive masturbation.
Additionally, depending on the device they watch porn on and the position they are sitting or lying in, they may begin to experience neck pain, back pain, and even headaches from staring at a screen for an extended time.
11. You Find it Difficult to Concentrate
As someone’s porn viewing habits reach an obsessive level, they may find it challenging to focus on anything that is not related to pornography or the act of watching porn. This can harm everything from their relationships to their job.
Their obsession with porn and its effect on their ability to concentrate may lead to feelings of frustration, confusion, and agitation. They may also find themselves getting annoyed at their inability to focus on their task at hand properly.
12. You Get Frustrated When You Can’t Access Porn
Anger and agitation are common side effects of addiction of any kind.
With porn addiction specifically, the person may grow angry or frustrated when something or someone is keeping them from being able to watch porn, such as work or spending time with their partner.
They may also become annoyed or angry when the porn they have been viewing is no longer providing them with the satisfaction they desire.
13. You Find Porn Less Satisfying With Each Use
With addiction of any kind, as your brain becomes more and more dependent on whatever it is addicted to, it starts to require more of it to reach its desired effect.
As someone’s porn addiction continues to grow and intensify, they may find themselves having to watch more porn to experience pleasure and arousal.
Additionally, they may find their taste in pornographic material has started to change. They may find that they have to start watching more extreme or, in some cases, even more violent internet pornography to experience arousal.
14. You Use Pornography to Cope With Life Stressors
Pornography may seem like a harmless outlet for dealing with other issues going on in a person’s life. It’s a pleasurable experience that can help take a person’s mind off of their struggles, even if it’s just briefly.
Pornography has been used as an outlet for those dealing with:
- Underlying mental health disorders
- Relationship problems
- Substance abuse and addiction, such as alcohol abuse
However, as is the case with using drugs or alcohol as a form of self-medication, using pornography as a means to escape life’s problems can lead to an increased risk of dependency and addiction.
When Does Porn Use Become Porn Addiction?
Watching porn doesn’t automatically lead to online porn addiction or sex addiction. Many people have a healthy relationship with pornography and the use of porn.
However, if a person’s porn habits harm their overall well-being of themselves and those around them, it may be a sign that a porn addiction has developed.
When to Get Help for Porn Addiction
If you or a loved one is suffering from a porn addiction, there are a variety of porn addiction treatment options that are available.
Therapy and counseling from mental health professionals have proven to be the most effective treatment options for porn addiction.
Some of the various therapies that have been used for treating porn addiction include:
- Individual and group therapy
- Family therapy
- Couples counseling
- Psychotherapy such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT)
- Mindfulness-based therapies
- Support groups such as Sex Addicts Anonymous and Pornography Addicts Anonymous
Additionally, a healthcare professional may recommend certain medications to help with some of the side effects associated with porn addiction, such as antidepressants, and certain addiction medicines, such as naltrexone.
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Reach Out for Help for Someone With Pornography Addiction
If you or a loved one is showing signs or symptoms of porn addiction, you can find the help you need or even seek confidential medical advice for a treatment referral.
Visit the Porn Addicts Anonymous (PAA) page for meeting times and locations in your area. You can also call the SAMHSA helpline at 1-866-624-0819 or visit their online program locator to find addiction treatment options in your area.
Porn Addiction Signs FAQs
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Jessica Miller is the Editorial Director of Addiction Help. Jessica graduated from the University of South Florida (USF) with an English degree and combines her writing expertise and passion for helping others to deliver reliable information to those impacted by addiction. Informed by her personal journey to recovery and support of loved ones in sobriety, Jessica’s empathetic and authentic approach resonates deeply with the Addiction Help community.
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