GONZO  SEX

Very rough sex might be likened to a fist fight. If you have seen a fight in reality, both are nervous and it is meant that one should conquer the other. This means that the male tops the female and hurts her. He may also spray her with urine or sperm. The female is conquered and  shamed.

The movie also indicates that she enjoyed it and would like to do it again. She may also be slapped, kicked, or twisting of arms. Fisting may also be involved  along with forced anal sex. In the greater nature, a child could be born from the violence.

Rape is displayed by force and humiliation. The male has conquered her and has “groomed”  her to be the recipient  of pain.

It is possible that the female is the “winner” but this violates the rules of patriarchy.

SOCIAL ANDROGYNOUS SEX

The sex in this relationship is gentle and explorative. Both partners of this relationship are displaying affection. Whatever the activity, both agree to it. They may talk with each other. At times the sex could appear to be violent, but it is fake and adds drama to the relationships. This type of sex may really be something that emerged and could be an activity from feminism, but not necessarily from sexual liberation.

Either partner can  initiate  the sex. A female may be the dominant partner from the beginning to the end of the sexual intercourse. Both sexes can switch back and forth in terms of dominance.  No one is conquered. Hopefully, both become more united.

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