BOTTOM/TOP

(MTV)

One can imagine that some of the gay culture is going to drift over to the straight culture. As an example, TOP means that an individual enjoys the dominant aggressive role. BOTTOM means that the individual prefers the passive role. Each has its own benefits. Whatever is involved in sex play how much is nature and nurture is subject to debate. However, the stereotype is that masculine types like top, feminine likes bottom.

That is the stereotype. So, let’s anecdotally look what might be happening behind close doors. A masculine male is supposed to be a TOP. A feminine male likes bottom. So, there you go. It is all worked out. However, what one expects of the other does not necessarily mean what one says in public. TOPS may secretly want to be bottom or both.

And so as time goes on as the sexes are 99% genetically the same, however for gays genes can be impacted in the early stages of rebirth. For straights, this is also the case.

At any rate, a straight girl is looking on-line for a date. Here is the real story.

She loves to shop, talk on the phone with her girl friends, gossip at school and loves volleyball. She is also good in softball. She wants 2 children someday with a husband that loves kids and will stick it out until the end. She tried TOP and it was okay.

The online characteristics are the following:

SWF looking for male 19- to 29. He must like watching football, walks in the park, backpacking, and video games. Slender female wants to be TOP/ negotiable. I do not want children.

Now what she describes is partly true. The rest could be true. What she is describing is a female that guys like. In other words, she is a sexual buddy who likes what he does but has her own life. That is she is not clingy.

She also says that she can be sexually aggressive. Further, they will have a life that is strikingly different from those who have children. If she says she wants kids and she likes

BOTTOM. She is a very traditional gal that certain males want. However, more males would probably like the first description and that gets the relationship going.

Then she can change her mind once the marriage begins. On the other hand the male really wants to hang out with his buddies and she is not going to see him much.

What does he say?

SWM likes walks, movies, and sports. Wants female who likes those things too.

BOTTOM / NEGIOTIABLE.  (What a sensitive guy. He may be a keeper.)

And so on. TOP/BOTTOM is a nice euphemistic way to get an important issue out of the way or to lie in a nice way.

You may start seeing personal with reference to BOTTOM/ TOP. Now you know what it may mean.